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What does it mean?
Reformers should avoid close bonds with those they try to change.
In plain terms
Don't be too close to people you are reforming.
What can you take from it?
Keep distance to effectively reform others.

Where it applies

  • activism
  • mentoring
  • political work

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • advocacy
  • public speaking

Questions to consider

  • Can you reform without closeness?
  • Is distance needed for objectivity?

Another view

Empathy often requires closeness to understand needs.

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