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What does it mean?
The speaker credits gay men for providing a supportive social circle that made interacting with men comfortable for her.
In plain terms
She thanks gay men for being the first men she felt safe around.
What can you take from it?
Safe communities can build confidence for interacting with broader groups.

Where it applies

  • socializing
  • building confidence
  • community building

Putting it to work

  • valuing supportive networks
  • acknowledging allies

Questions to consider

  • Who helped you feel safe in social settings?
  • How do friendships shape your confidence?

Another view

Not everyone finds gay men to be safe or welcoming.

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