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[Charity] conceals a stupid cruelty, because it is not courageous enough to face unpleasant facts. Aside from the question of the unfitness of many women to become mothers, aside from the very definite deterioration in the human stock that such programs would inevitably hasten, we may question its value even to the normal though unfortunate mother. For it is never the intention of such philanthropy to give the poor over-burdened and often undernourished mother of the slum the opportunity to make the choice herself, to decide whether she wishes time after time to bring children into the world. It merely says 'Increase and multiply: We are prepared to help you do this.' Whereas the great majority of mothers realize the grave responsibility they face in keeping alive and rearing the children they have already brought into the world, the maternity center would teach them how to have more. The poor woman is taught how to have her seventh child, when what she wants to know is how to avoid bringing into the world her eighth. ...Such philanthropy, as Dean Inge has so unanswerably pointed out, is kind only to be cruel, and unwittingly promotes precisely the results most deprecated. It encourages the healthier and more normal sections of the world to shoulder the burden of unthinking and indiscriminate fecundity of others; which brings with it, as I think the reader must agree, a dead weight of human waste. Instead of decreasing and aiming to eliminate the stocks that are most detrimental to the future of the race and the world, it tends to render them to a menacing degree dominant.

Margaret Sanger#7

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Charity hides a cruel reality because it lacks the courage to confront harsh truths about who should become mothers.
In plain terms
Charity avoids facing hard facts about motherhood.
What can you take from it?
Question the motives behind charitable programs that push more births.

Where it applies

  • policy planning
  • nonprofit programs
  • public health debates

Putting it to work

  • evaluate program goals
  • ensure informed consent

Questions to consider

  • What responsibilities do charitable groups have to empower choice?
  • How can we balance aid with autonomy?

Another view

The view assumes a universal standard of fitness for motherhood, which is highly subjective.

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