'Five years' training in Zurich at the C. G. Jung Institute,' I said. 'Jung was a student of Freud until they quarreled.'

'What's this Chungian analyst?' he asked.

'Oh, yes,' he said. 'Dreams and all that kind of thing.'

This is the point where love becomes possible. We see the other with the eye of the heart, an eye not clouded by fear manifesting as need, jealousy, possessive…