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What does it mean?
Twain suggests that knowing someone too well leads to disrespect, but also to having children.
In plain terms
Being too close to someone makes you dislike them, but it also makes families.
What can you take from it?
Close relationships have mixed outcomes.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • balance familiarity and respect

Questions to consider

  • Does familiarity always reduce respect?
  • How to maintain respect in close bonds?

Another view

It oversimplifies the benefits of familiarity.

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