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What does it mean?
People often talk past each other instead of truly communicating.
In plain terms
Most conversations are just people talking about their own thoughts.
What can you take from it?
Listen actively to bridge the gap in conversations.

Where it applies

  • arguments
  • meetings
  • negotiations

Putting it to work

  • ask clarifying questions
  • listen without interrupting
  • summarize what you hear

Questions to consider

  • When did you last truly listen?
  • What are you ignoring in conversation?

Another view

Some dialogue does involve genuine exchange.

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