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What does it mean?
Violence causes us to lose our sense of identity.
In plain terms
When we use violence, we forget who we are.
What can you take from it?
Violence destroys self-awareness.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • self-analysis

Putting it to work

  • avoid dehumanization
  • maintain identity

Questions to consider

  • Does violence change us?

Another view

Survival sometimes requires violence.

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