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What does it mean?
Ignore both the cynic who says do whatever you want and the religious who say reject the world; just be yourself.
In plain terms
Do not follow the cynical or the religious blindly; just be a real human.
What can you take from it?
Avoid extremes and live authentically.

Where it applies

  • ethical dilemmas
  • peer pressure
  • self-development

Putting it to work

  • find middle ground
  • act with integrity
  • think for yourself

Questions to consider

  • Who influences your choices?
  • How do you define yourself?

Another view

Some situations require taking a clear moral stand.

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