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Certainly we want to protect our children from new and painful experiences that are beyond their emotional comprehension and that intensify anxiety; and to a point we can prevent premature exposure to such experiences. That is obvious. But what is just as obvious - and what is too often overlooked - is the fact that from their earliest years children live on familiar terms with disrupting emotions, fear and anxiety are an intrinsic part of their everyday lives, they continually cope with frustrations as best they can. And it is through fantasy that children achieve catharsis. It is the best means they have for taming Wild Things.

Maurice Sendak#2

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About this quote

What does it mean?
While adults shield children from overwhelming pain, children already navigate complex emotions daily. Fantasy offers them a vital tool to process fear and frustration.
In plain terms
Kids deal with big feelings all the time; stories help them manage it.
What can you take from it?
Fantasy helps children cope with real emotions.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • education
  • therapeutic practice

Putting it to work

  • encourage imaginative play
  • validate emotions

Questions to consider

  • How do children process fear?
  • What role does story play?

Another view

Some children may need more direct emotional support than fantasy alone.

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