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I wanted my wild things to be frightening. But why? It was probably at this point that I remembered how I detested my Brooklyn relatives as a small child. They came almost every Sunday, and there was my week-long anxiety about their coming the next Sunday... They'd lean way over with their bad teeth and hairy noses, and say something threatening like 'You're so cute I could eat you up.' And I knew if my mother didn't hurry up with the cooking, they probably would.

Maurice Sendak#5

ChildhoodFamilyFearMemory

About this quote

What does it mean?
The author recalls childhood anxiety over intrusive relatives, linking fear to real family interactions. Threats disguised as affection left lasting emotional marks.
In plain terms
I hated scary relatives who came every Sunday and said creepy things.
What can you take from it?
Childhood fears often stem from real adult behavior.

Where it applies

  • family gatherings
  • childhood trauma
  • creative inspiration

Putting it to work

  • process past fears
  • revisit memories

Questions to consider

  • What relatives made you uneasy?
  • Where do your fears come from?

Another view

Not all family visits cause anxiety.

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