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I don't want to overdo discussing my experience of motherhood, its too private and profound to parade around. I will say that carrying a child, giving birth to a child and raising that child up has made me feel more engaged and connected to others. I have a greater understanding of people (living past & present). We all begin so pure, so innocent and so hungry for physical and emotional comfort. It's so important that every baby be generously cherished, fed and comforted. I can see now how withholding these essentials can do irreparable damage. Now (post-baby) when I encounter a sad or aggressive character, I wonder what the first three years of his or her life were like. Imaging them alone, crying in their cribs has given me much more compassion.

Natalie Merchant#57

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker describes how motherhood increased empathy for children by reflecting on their early needs.
In plain terms
Becoming a parent made me understand and care more about babies.
What can you take from it?
Parenting builds empathy for others' needs.

Where it applies

  • raising children
  • social work
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • advocating for early childhood
  • practicing compassion
  • parenting education

Questions to consider

  • How did you learn empathy?
  • What needs do children have?

Another view

It assumes all mothers will feel this specific change universally.

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