I don't want to overdo discussing my experience of motherhood, its too private and profound to parade around. I will say that carrying a child, giving birth to a child and raising that child up has made me feel more engaged and connected to others. I have a greater understanding of people (living past & present). We all begin so pure, so innocent and so hungry for physical and emotional comfort. It's so important that every baby be generously cherished, fed and comforted. I can see now how withholding these essentials can do irreparable damage. Now (post-baby) when I encounter a sad or aggressive character, I wonder what the first three years of his or her life were like. Imaging them alone, crying in their cribs has given me much more compassion.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker describes how motherhood increased empathy for children by reflecting on their early needs.
- In plain terms
- Becoming a parent made me understand and care more about babies.
- What can you take from it?
- Parenting builds empathy for others' needs.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How did you learn empathy?
- What needs do children have?
Another view
It assumes all mothers will feel this specific change universally.
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