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The moment when a man's head drops off is seldom or never, I am inclined to think, precisely the most agreeable of his life. Nevertheless, like the greater part of our misfortunes, even so serious a contingency brings its remedy and consolation with it, if the sufferer will but make the best, rather than the worst, of the accident which has befallen him.

Nathaniel Hawthorne#36

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Even the worst misfortune brings comfort if one chooses to make the best of it.
In plain terms
You can find comfort in bad events if you try.
What can you take from it?
Misfortune includes its own remedy if you look for it.

Where it applies

  • coping with trauma
  • philosophical discussion

Putting it to work

  • practicing reframing during crises
  • seeking silver linings

Questions to consider

  • Can any tragedy truly bring comfort?
  • How do we balance acceptance with grief?

Another view

It may invalidate the pain of severe tragedies like death or injury.

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