While I am sure there are a number of women who secretly wonder whether they are lesbian, most simply have, somewhere, a fantasy about having sex, in a non-defining, non-exclusive way, with other women.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker suggests some women have sexual fantasies about others without defining their sexuality.
- In plain terms
- She notes non-exclusive sexual fantasies about women among some women.
- What can you take from it?
- Acknowledge fluidity in sexual fantasies and identity.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you define your attractions?
- Are fantasies separate from identity?
Another view
Generalizations about women may not apply universally.
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