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What does it mean?
The speaker feels guilty about taking space or resources that did not belong to them.
In plain terms
I felt like an outsider who ate all the food at a party not meant for them.
What can you take from it?
We often feel out of place when we consume more than our share.

Where it applies

  • new environments
  • uninvited attendance
  • resource hoarding

Putting it to work

  • asking permission
  • stepping back

Questions to consider

  • Where do you feel out of place?
  • Do you feel you took too much?

Another view

The metaphor suggests a lack of entitlement rather than actual wrongdoing.

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