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Man is too thoroughly an egoist not to be also an egotist; if he love, the object shall know it. During a lifetime he may conceal it through stress of expediency and honour, but it shall bubble from his dying lips, though it disrupt a neighbourhood. It is known, however, that most men do not wait so long to disclose their passion. In the case of Lorison, his particular ethics positively forbade him to declare his sentiments, but he must needs dally with the subject, and woo by innuendo at least.

O. Henry#32

TruthLoveEgoHuman naturePassionSecrecy

About this quote

What does it mean?
Men cannot hide their selfish love forever; it will eventually show.
In plain terms
Selfish people always show their love eventually.
What can you take from it?
You cannot hide your true feelings forever.

Where it applies

  • confessing love
  • hidden emotions
  • ethical dilemmas

Putting it to work

  • writing romance
  • analyzing behavior
  • understanding secrecy

Questions to consider

  • Why do we hide our feelings?
  • When does truth come out?

Another view

Some people manage to keep feelings hidden until the end.

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