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What does it mean?
Someone's flaws are endearing because they make him more human and relatable. Love grows stronger when imperfections are acknowledged.
In plain terms
I love him more because his flaws make him human.
What can you take from it?
Accepting flaws can deepen affection for someone.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • friendship
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • practice acceptance
  • focus on strengths
  • forgive

Questions to consider

  • Does loving flaws excuse bad behavior?
  • How do flaws make people relatable?

Another view

Some flaws are harmful and should not be accepted or loved.

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