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What does it mean?
Someone who discards friends casually but expects them to return on command lacks true loyalty.
In plain terms
He treats friends like tools he can use anytime.
What can you take from it?
Loyalty is mutual, not one-sided.

Where it applies

  • social circles
  • leadership
  • workplace

Putting it to work

  • value friends
  • avoid using people
  • be loyal

Questions to consider

  • What makes a true friend?
  • How do you treat loyalty?

Another view

Some may see this as clever management rather than betrayal.

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