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What does it mean?
Falsehoods can offer more stability or utility than harsh realities.
In plain terms
Sometimes lying is more reliable than telling the truth.
What can you take from it?
Consider why a lie might be preferred over truth.

Where it applies

  • conflict zones
  • family dynamics
  • war

Putting it to work

  • assess risk of truth
  • manage expectations

Questions to consider

  • When is a lie safer?
  • What does dependability mean here?

Another view

Liars are still dangerous in the long run.

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