When you really know somebody you can't hate them Or maybe it's just that you can't really know them until you stop hating them Is that a circular paradox? Dom Cristao says that most truth can only be expressed in circular paradoxes I don't think it has anything to do with truth, it's just cause and effect. We can never sort them out. Science refuses to admit any cause except the first cause - knock down one domino, the one next to it also falls. But when it comes to human beings, the only type of cause that matters is the final cause, the purpose. What a person had in mind. Once you know what people really want, you can't hate them anymore. You can fear them, but you can't hate them, because you can always find the same desires in your own heart.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Understanding someone's purpose and desires removes hatred, even if fear remains.
- In plain terms
- Knowing why people act prevents hatred because their desires mirror yours.
- What can you take from it?
- Seek understanding to remove hatred.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Who do you hate and why?
- What drives them?
Another view
Knowledge does not always stop emotional reactions.
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