She thinks she's the only one in the would to ever suffer. I say that without rancor. I have simply observed that she's so full of pain, she's incapable of taking anyone else's pain seriously.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Intense personal pain can blind someone to the suffering of others.
- In plain terms
- Someone in too much pain cannot take others pain seriously.
- What can you take from it?
- Pain can block empathy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you help someone in pain?
- Can pain stop understanding?
Another view
Ignoring pain might worsen isolation.
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