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I know something of how he feels. I know something of having to submerge your will in someone else's. To live for them, as if they were the star of the story of your life, and you merely a supporting player. I have been a slave. But at least in all that time I knew my own heart. I knew what I truly thought even as I did what they wanted, whatever it took to get what I wanted from them.

Orson Scott Card#218

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About this quote

What does it mean?
He describes feeling subjugated to another's will, yet retaining inner truth and using that to achieve personal goals.
In plain terms
Even when forced to serve others, he kept his own thoughts and used them to get what he wanted.
What can you take from it?
Maintain inner honesty to navigate external pressures.

Where it applies

  • workplace hierarchy
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • set personal boundaries
  • reflect on true motives

Questions to consider

  • How do you stay true to yourself when others demand compliance?

Another view

The metaphor of slavery is extreme and may not fit everyday contexts.

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