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What does it mean?
Civilization is linked to the ability to delay gratification.
In plain terms
Being civilized means waiting for what you want instead of taking it.
What can you take from it?
Patience defines civility.

Where it applies

  • social norms
  • ethics
  • behavior

Putting it to work

  • practice self restraint
  • assess social maturity

Questions to consider

  • What makes someone civilized?
  • Is waiting always good?

Another view

Patience is not always virtuous.

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