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What does it mean?
It highlights the inherent mystery and lack of true knowledge between individuals.
In plain terms
Nobody really knows anyone else very well.
What can you take from it?
True understanding of others is impossible.

Where it applies

  • intimate relationship
  • conflict
  • self reflection

Putting it to work

  • accept uncertainty
  • respect privacy
  • manage expectations

Questions to consider

  • Is it better to know someone fully?
  • How much should we share?

Another view

It ignores the moments where deep connection does occur.

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