He hated you for being yourself, because you were so similar to him, and yet so different. The only way you could have kept him from hating you would have been to die young
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker suggests that similarity can breed hatred, and the only way to avoid being hated by someone similar was to die young.
- In plain terms
- He hated you because you were like him but different; only death would have stopped it.
- What can you take from it?
- Similarity can sometimes cause more conflict than difference.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we hate those who mirror us?
- Is conflict inevitable between similar people?
Another view
This is a hyperbolic statement that ignores other ways to resolve conflict.
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