You'd think, from the way you talk, that people were responsible for their own behavior And they're not? Haven't you ever seen a 3 year old when he makes a foolish blunder? He looks at whatever child or adult is nearby and screams at him 'look at what you made me do!' that's the moral universe that [they] always lived in
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often blame others for their actions, seeing responsibility as external, like a child blaming a nearby adult for a mistake.
- In plain terms
- People tend to attribute their behavior to others, not themselves, similar to a child blaming a nearby adult.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize personal responsibility rather than shifting blame.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When do you tend to blame others?
- How can you own your actions more fully?
Another view
Some situations involve genuine external influence, not just self‑blame.
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