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What does it mean?
Some people gain satisfaction from controlling or defeating others.
In plain terms
Men enjoy winning and having power over others.
What can you take from it?
The need to win can be an unhealthy drive.

Where it applies

  • workplace conflict
  • relationships
  • sports

Putting it to work

  • recognize power dynamics

Questions to consider

  • Do you enjoy winning for winning's sake?
  • What drives your desire to succeed?

Another view

It generalizes all men and may ignore cooperative winning.

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