Skip to content
quotesby

About this quote

What does it mean?
Shared suffering can create a bond between people who feel confined by their circumstances.
In plain terms
People who feel trapped together can become friends.
What can you take from it?
Empathy arises from recognizing shared struggles.

Where it applies

  • feeling stuck in life
  • mutual understanding
  • shared hardship

Putting it to work

  • build rapport through vulnerability
  • acknowledge shared pain

Questions to consider

  • What binds you to others?
  • How does shared pain affect trust?

Another view

This perspective might overlook individual agency or choices.

More from Orson Scott Card

  1. Out of respect for custom he treats me as if all women were equally worthless. He gives custom more respect than he gives me

    Permalink to quote #444
  2. Friends, a man and a woman. It was possible

    Permalink to quote #446
  3. We can wash people in the water all we want, but we can never wash their parents out of their hearts

    Permalink to quote #443

Related quotes

  1. Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and unde…

    Maya AngelouMaya Angelou quote #3
  2. I'm Nobody! Who are you? Are you - Nobody - Too?

    Emily DickinsonEmily Dickinson quote #5
  3. The attempt to force human beings to despise themselves: is what I call hell.

    Andre MalrauxAndre Malraux quote #6