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Alvin saw how measure was with Delphi. She wasn't a noticeably pretty girl, though not particular ugly either; she was strong and stout and laughed loud as a donkey. But Alvin saw how measure had a way of looking at her like the most beautiful sight he ever could see. She'd look up and there he'd be, watching her with a kind of dreamy smile on his face, and shed laugh or blush or look away, but for a minute or two she'd move more graceful, walking partly on her toes maybe, like she was dancing, or getting set to fly. Alvin wondered then if he could ever give such a look to Miss. Larner as would make her so full of joy that she couldn't hardly stay connected to the earth

Orson Scott Card#526

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Deep affection makes an ordinary person appear extraordinary to the lover.
In plain terms
Love makes someone seem beautiful and graceful even if they are not conventionally attractive.
What can you take from it?
Affection changes how we see others.

Where it applies

  • romance
  • dating

Putting it to work

  • noticing partners
  • expressing love

Questions to consider

  • How does love change your view of someone?
  • Do you see your partner realistically?

Another view

It idealizes the other person rather than seeing them clearly.

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