I hurt him again. I meant to pretend to love him, but in the moment I simply told the truth, which is my habit. And I don't know that I want to change that habit. You can tell a lie now and then. But what happens to you when you try to live your whole life inside a lie?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker admits to telling the truth out of habit, fearing that living a lie is unsustainable.
- In plain terms
- I tell the truth because I must; living a lie is dangerous.
- What can you take from it?
- Honesty is often a default habit because living dishonestly is exhausting.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why is living a lie hard?
- Is honesty always the right choice?
Another view
Sometimes telling the truth can cause unnecessary harm in social situations.
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