That was the most terrible thing that a woman could to a decent man: look vulnerable and ask him for mercy. If he refused her he'd be denying all his instincts as a provider and protector
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A man may feel torn between his protective instincts and being asked for mercy.
- In plain terms
- Asking for mercy can make a man feel like he is failing his duty to protect.
- What can you take from it?
- Vulnerability can burden a protector with conflicting instincts.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What does protection cost the protector?
- How should vulnerability be received?
Another view
This view assumes men are primarily defined by a provider role.
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