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What does it mean?
Polite customs can feel hollow when used to mask loss of rights.
In plain terms
Manners taught to be polite feel wrong when helping someone take freedom.
What can you take from it?
Courtesy can feel like complicity when it enables oppression.

Where it applies

  • legal disputes
  • bureaucracy
  • power imbalances

Putting it to work

  • recognize complicity
  • challenge unjust systems
  • value dignity

Questions to consider

  • When is politeness dangerous?
  • How do you resist unjust systems?

Another view

Politeness is not always a sign of consent.

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