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What does it mean?
Shared loss created a bond between two people who were part of the tragedy.
In plain terms
They are now connected by their shared loss.
What can you take from it?
Shared pain can create deep connections between people.

Where it applies

  • after a tragedy
  • support groups
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • processing grief
  • building community

Questions to consider

  • Can loss bring people together?
  • What binds people besides joy?

Another view

Not all shared pain leads to a bond.

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