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What does it mean?
The speaker feels selfish for wanting a loved one to stay, but rationalizes that she will now be free and go home to Jesus.
In plain terms
I wanted her to go home with me, but she’ll be free now.
What can you take from it?
Balance personal desire with respect for another’s freedom.

Where it applies

  • family conflict
  • death of a loved one

Putting it to work

  • offer support
  • accept loss

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle feeling selfish after a loss?

Another view

Mixes religious reference with personal emotion, which may not resonate universally.

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