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What does it mean?
Habitual emotional hiding becomes useless when someone already knows your weaknesses.
In plain terms
He hides his face out of habit, but she already knows his emotions and weaknesses.
What can you take from it?
Habits persist even when they no longer serve a purpose.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • emotional transparency

Putting it to work

  • recognize outdated habits
  • practice vulnerability

Questions to consider

  • What habits do you keep out of old fear?
  • Is hiding ever useful when secrets are out?

Another view

Sometimes hiding emotions protects even if others know.

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