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What does it mean?
The speaker recognizes a look of domination and a desire to break independence.
In plain terms
He wants to control you, not understand you.
What can you take from it?
Watch for eyes that seek submission.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • setting boundaries
  • awareness

Questions to consider

  • How do you spot control?
  • What does submission look like?

Another view

It assumes all power is malicious.

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