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What does it mean?
Criticism of someone who prefers a controlled, rule-bound world over a chaotic, realistic one.
In plain terms
You live in a fantasy because the real world is too messy.
What can you take from it?
Rules and theories can blind you to reality.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • philosophy
  • lifestyle choices

Putting it to work

  • accepting uncertainty
  • learning from mistakes

Questions to consider

  • Is your world too neat?
  • Are you avoiding reality?

Another view

Rules provide necessary structure for society.

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