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What does it mean?
The speaker feels immense regret over marrying a person, blaming another for making them wish they were never born.
In plain terms
This person made the speaker regret their marriage so much they wish they were never born.
What can you take from it?
Regret over a life choice can feel like regretting existence itself.

Where it applies

  • ending a relationship
  • family conflict
  • personal crisis

Putting it to work

  • reflect on past choices
  • seek closure
  • evaluate relationships

Questions to consider

  • What decisions do you regret most?
  • How do you handle regret?

Another view

It expresses extreme emotion that may not reflect long-term truth.

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