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What does it mean?
People suffer from longing for something they can never attain. The quote captures the deep ache of unfulfilled potential or desire.
In plain terms
Pain comes from wanting something you can't have.
What can you take from it?
Unreachable desires cause suffering.

Where it applies

  • discussing loss
  • analyzing desire
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • process unattainable desires
  • manage grief

Questions to consider

  • Why do we want the unreachable?
  • How to deal with longing?

Another view

It ignores coping mechanisms for loss.

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