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Most people, brought much more than this when they traveled. Perhaps because they were insecure, and needed to surround themselves with familiar things, or to feel that they had many choices to make each day when they dressed, so they didn't have to be so frightened or feel so powerless. Obviously that was not Hunahpuh's problem. He apparently never felt fear at all, or perhaps never regarded himself as a stranger. How remarkable it would be to feel at home in any place. I wish I had that gift

Orson Scott Card#772

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Security often drives attachment to familiar things; belonging removes that need.
In plain terms
People cling to what they know to feel safe.
What can you take from it?
Cultivate adaptability to feel at home anywhere.

Where it applies

  • travel
  • moving
  • displacement

Putting it to work

  • practice adaptability
  • reduce material attachment

Questions to consider

  • What makes you feel safe?
  • Can you be happy without familiar things?

Another view

Security needs are valid.

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