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What does it mean?
She relied on his comfort and affection enough to overlook his lies and pretend he needed her.
In plain terms
She pretended to believe his lies because she needed his care.
What can you take from it?
Neediness can make people ignore red flags.

Where it applies

  • abusive relationships
  • emotional dependency
  • grief

Putting it to work

  • recognize denial
  • seek truthful support

Questions to consider

  • What lies do you tell yourself to feel safe?
  • How do you handle needing someone?

Another view

Sometimes comfort is all someone can manage in pain.

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