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What does it mean?
He stayed silent not because the idea helped him but because he resisted being told he was wrong.
In plain terms
He was quiet because he hated hearing he was wrong.
What can you take from it?
Ego often silences us when challenged.

Where it applies

  • arguments
  • feedback sessions
  • family disputes

Putting it to work

  • listen to criticism
  • check your pride

Questions to consider

  • Why do you avoid admitting you are wrong?
  • What does your silence hide?

Another view

Sometimes silence means processing, not resistance.

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