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What does it mean?
The speaker finds relief in the possibility of speaking honestly without fear of judgment.
In plain terms
It feels good to talk to someone who understands and won't judge you.
What can you take from it?
Honesty brings relief when you find someone who accepts you.

Where it applies

  • confession
  • seeking support
  • personal confession

Putting it to work

  • seek non non-judgmental listeners
  • practice radical honesty

Questions to consider

  • When was the last time you felt safe to be honest?
  • What stops you from seeking understanding?

Another view

Not everyone who listens will actually understand or accept.

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