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What does it mean?
Two people hold conflicting beliefs about one's existence, one denying reality while the other affirms it.
In plain terms
She thinks you are not real but I believe you are.
What can you take from it?
Perception of reality depends on the observer's belief.

Where it applies

  • disbelief
  • validation
  • argument

Putting it to work

  • affirming identity
  • challenging denial

Questions to consider

  • Who decides what is real?
  • Can belief create reality?

Another view

It offers no resolution to the conflict.

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