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What does it mean?
It states that all children inherently use manipulation.
In plain terms
All children manipulate others.
What can you take from it?
Children naturally test boundaries to get what they want.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • child development
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • writing children
  • parenting advice
  • behavioral analysis

Questions to consider

  • Is manipulation a normal part of growth?
  • How do you set boundaries with children?

Another view

The absolute claim ignores individual differences in child behavior.

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