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What does it mean?
Forgiveness is chosen but difficult to act on consistently.
In plain terms
She decided to forgive but couldn't follow through.
What can you take from it?
Forgiveness is hard to practice.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • practice active forgiveness
  • expect struggle

Questions to consider

  • Is it harder to decide or act?
  • Can you forgive without forgetting?

Another view

Sometimes holding on is safer than forgiving.

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