What's so wrong with feeling sorry for myself? Better that than trying to get other people to feel sorry for me. And somebody sure ought to, because my life is definitely in the pitiful range, if it hasn't already dropped on down into disastrous
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker prefers self-pity over manipulating others' pity, admitting deep distress.
- In plain terms
- Feeling sorry for myself is better than asking others.
- What can you take from it?
- Self-pity can feel safer than begging sympathy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why avoid asking for help?
- What makes you feel pitiful?
Another view
Self-pity can isolate you further.
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