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What does it mean?
Love is inherently irrational for everyone, and suppressing it can lead to greater emotional instability.
In plain terms
Loving someone is normal, but not loving anyone can make you more unstable.
What can you take from it?
Accept that love involves some irrationality.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on past relationships
  • processing heartbreak
  • questioning motives

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge feelings
  • avoid repression

Questions to consider

  • Is love always irrational?
  • Can avoiding love protect you?

Another view

Not everyone who suppresses love becomes emotionally unstable.

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