An engagement should come on a young girl as a surprise, pleasant or unpleasant as the case may be.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- An engagement should surprise a young woman, whether pleasant or unpleasant.
- In plain terms
- A proposal should catch a young woman off guard, for better or worse.
- What can you take from it?
- Unexpected proposals can be unsettling; consider timing.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is a surprise proposal appropriate?
- How can partners ensure mutual readiness?
Another view
Surprise proposals can be manipulative or disrespectful.
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