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What does it mean?
I invented a permanent invalid, Bunbury, so I can escape to the country whenever I wish.
In plain terms
I created a fake excuse, Bunbury, to leave whenever I want.
What can you take from it?
Use plausible excuses to gain freedom, but beware of deception.

Where it applies

  • social obligations
  • personal retreats

Putting it to work

  • plan legitimate breaks
  • avoid overusing false pretenses

Questions to consider

  • When is it acceptable to invent an excuse?
  • What are the costs of habitual deception?

Another view

Relying on lies can damage trust.

More from Oscar Wilde

  1. The truth is rarely pure and never simple. Modern life would be very tedious if it were either, and modern literature a complete impossibility!

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  2. In married life, three is company, and two is none.

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  3. All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That's his.

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