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What does it mean?
He recognized the exact moment when silence was the best response.
In plain terms
He knew when to stay silent.
What can you take from it?
Timing silence can be more powerful than speaking.

Where it applies

  • negotiations
  • conflict resolution
  • public speaking

Putting it to work

  • practice listening before replying
  • use pauses for effect

Questions to consider

  • How do you decide when silence is appropriate?
  • What are risks of staying silent?

Another view

Silence can be misinterpreted as agreement or weakness.

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